下面是yjbys作文網(wǎng)為大家?guī)淼?a target='_blank'>英語作文：學(xué)會向孩子說“不”Learn to Say ‘No’ to Chil，希望大家喜歡。
“It hurt me more than you.”And“ this is for your own good.” These are the statements my mother used to make years ago when I had to learn Latin, clean my room, stay home and do homework.
"這么做其實我比你更痛苦.""這對你自己有好處。"當(dāng)年我學(xué)拉丁語、打掃房間或待在家里做作業(yè)時我媽媽常說這話。
That was before we entered the permissive period in education in which we decided it was all right not to push out children to achieve xiaogushi8.com their best in school. The schools and educators made it easy on us. They taught that is was all right to be parents who take a let-alone(放任的,不管的) policy. We stopped making our children do homework. We gave calculators, turned on the television, left the teaching to the teachers and went on vacation.
那是在我們進(jìn)入教育縱容期之前發(fā)生的事。在教育縱容期,我們認(rèn)為不必強(qiáng)迫孩子們在學(xué)校竭力表現(xiàn)。學(xué)校和教育學(xué)家讓我們不必對此擔(dān)憂。他們教導(dǎo)說:家長完全可以采取放任不管的政策。我們不再逼孩子去做作業(yè)。我們拿出計算器(給孩子),打開電視機(jī),把教育的事情留給老師,然后去度假。
Now teachers, faced with children who have been developing at their own pace for the pastl5 years, are realizing we've made a terrible mistake. One such teacher is Sharon Klompus who said of her students“ so passive” and wondered what have happened. Nothing was demanded of them, she believes. Television, says Klompus, contributes to children's passivity. We are not training kids to work any more, says Klompus. We are talking about a generation of kids who've xiaogushi8.com never been hurt or hungry. They have learned somebody will always do it for them. Instead of saying go look it up, you tell them the answer. It takes greater energy to say no to a kid.”
面對過去15年中一直按自己的步伐發(fā)展的學(xué)生,老師們意識到犯了一個嚴(yán)重的錯誤。莎倫卡.拉姆波斯就是這樣一個老師,她覺得她的學(xué)生們太消極了,并想知道這是怎么回事。她認(rèn)為,我們沒有要求孩子們?nèi)プ鍪虑槭菍?dǎo)致他們的消極態(tài)度的原因。電視也是原因之一。我們不再訓(xùn)練孩子們做事,我們討論的這一代人是沒有受過傷害、也沒有受過饑餓的一代。他們知道總會有人替他們做,你會直接告訴他們答案而不是讓他們自己去査字典。對他們說“不”是件勞神的事情。
Yes, it does. It takes energy and it takes work. It's time for parents to end their vacation and come back to work. It's xiaogushi8.com time to take the car away, to turn the TV off, and to tell them it hurts you more than them but it's for their own good. It's time to start telling them no again.
事實的確如此。但是我們的確需要勞這個神并開始行動。家長們到了該結(jié)束假期并回到家開始行動的時候了。把車開走,關(guān)掉電視,告訴孩子們:這么做你比他們更痛苦,但這都是為了他們好。是再次跟他們說“不”的時候了。